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Can older women use sex toys
Can older women use sex toys? It is a question women may ask themselves in their later years. A study conducted in the United States actually found that women aged over 60 could improve their health by using sex toys. Some senior women may have used toys when they were younger or want to experiment with them for the first time, but have some concerns about doing so.
Sex Toys and the Menopause
Women of a certain age (usually between the ages of 45 and 55, but sometimes younger) are going through the menopause or perimenopause and find that sex is painful and not as enjoyable as before. That is where sex toys and lubricants can help bring pleasure back into their life. Experimenting with toys can add extra excitement and fun to your sex life, whether you’re single or in a couple. The Menopause can cause women to suffer with vaginal dryness, itching and irritation due to the decrease in oestrogen. This can be very painful before sex, let alone when having intercourse.
We advise that if you are suffering from any of these problems, you first seek advice from a medical professional. A lot of people find that with the help of lubricants, they can enjoy a happy, healthy sex life just like before. We have compiled a list of the top 5 recommended lubricants for menopausal women.
Lubricants for vaginal dryness
1, Lubido Water-Based Lubricants 30ml £5.99
2, Yes Organic Water-Based Personal Lubricant 150ml £16.99
3, Astroglide Sensitive Skin Gel Personal Lubricant 3oz £9.99
4, Astroglide Natural Personal Lubricant 2.5oz £24.99
5, Super Slik Lube 100ml £9.99
Best Sex Toys for the Menopause
Vaginal Dilators are a perfect toy for easing into intimate play. These medical devices are designed to gently stretch and prevent narrowing of the vaginal canal. They come in a range of materials, Silicone is best as it’s body-safe. Relax, add some lubricant and prepare for pleasure. Dialators often come in a set of different sizes. Choose the smallest size to begin with, practice daily, and you can work your way up to the largest, if you want to. Some older women may suffer from Vaginismus during the menopause (involuntary tightening of the vaginal muscles). Dilators can be helpful with this. It is recommended that women engage in regular sexual activity (with or without a partner), as this maintains tissue health by increasing blood flow. Dilators are a great choice for this.
Silicone Pelvic Kegel Exerciser Set £71.99
We recommend the Silicone Pelvic Kegel Exerciser Set to ease you into the use of sex toys. This premium-quality set includes five dialators of varying lengths and girths. Each dilator features a tapered tip for easy insertion and a suction cup base for hands-free pleasure. These pelvic dilators can help you stretch your pelvic floor muscles and effectively relieve tension. Pair these dilators with some water-based lubricant, and insertion will be comfortable and easier. Whether you are in the menopause or just an older lady wanting to try a sex toy for the first time, these are a great beginner’s sex toy.
Multispeed Super Smoothie 7 Inch Vibrator £14.99
This classic vibrator makes an ideal beginner’s sex toy due to its slim and sleek shape. Some of the larger rabbit-style vibrators can be a bit daunting and intimidating for first-time users and experienced users alike, whereas this vibe is easier to insert due to its small size. Add some water-based lube to the shaft and your intimate bits, take it slow, and this vibe will be comfortable and easy to insert. It also features a simple and easy-to-operate twist dial base to activate the vibrations.
Inmi Slim G 10X Flexible Pinpoint Vibrator £39.99
The Inmi Slim G 10X Flexible Pinpoint Vibrator is made from sumptuous silicone, an ideal choice for women experiencing menopause. Silicone Toys are great for sexual health as they are hypoallergenic, non-porous and easy to clean. So if you’re suffering from vaginal dryness, a medical-grade silicone toy is your ideal match.
Lubricant recommendation for Silicone Sex Toys: Silicone toys should never be used with Silicone lubricants, as they can break down the material. We advise that you use water-based lubricants in combination with silicone toys for safer, comfortable play.
Loving Joy Kegel Toner Balls 200g
Kegel Balls, also known as Ben Wa Balls, are the go-to choice for ladies as they offer multiple benefits. Not only are they used for pleasure, which is reason enough to purchase them, but they also provide health benefits. Let’s talk about vaginal dryness (again) and incontinence. If you’re finding that you’re having leaks, you may benefit from using Kegel Balls. They are designed to sit inside the vagina, which is obviously pleasurable, and it boosts your natural lubrication. When inserted, these weighted balls help to exercise your important vaginal muscles, which can help with continence issues.
Simply add some water-based lubricant, and popping them in should be a breeze. A lot of Kegel balls come with various interchangeable weights. Start with the lightest first and work your way up to the heaviest when you feel ready.
Sex Toys For Disabled People
Another thing to consider when deciding if older women can use sex toys is whether they have any disabilities or mobility issues. Having these issues can make sexual intercourse and foreplay difficult. If they do, that still doesn’t mean that they can’t use sex toys. There are specific types of toys that have easy-to-use controls and larger buttons if the user has any dexterity issues. Sex toys for disabled people are often designed by disabled people as they can determine what will best benefit the user. If you are living with a disability and you want to try a sex toy, then go by your own limits; you know your body best, and what you enjoy and don’t.
We have compiled a list of some of the best toys for disabled people.
Top Sex Toys for disabled people
Suction cup dildos are the perfect choice for people living with disabilities as they can be enjoyed completely hands-free. They can be stuck to most flat surfaces, allowing the user to enjoy internal stimulation without the need for holding the item. So if you’re a woman who is living with a disability that affects her hands, you can benefit from owning a suction cup dildo. These dildos come in a range of materials. Silicone is the best choice as it’s body-safe, hypoallergenic and non-porous.
Another accessible sex toy is the Wand Vibrator, thanks to its easy-to-hold handles and non-intimidating size. These toys are great for older women who haven’t used sex toys before, as they can initially be used for sensual massages, making them great if you suffer from aches and pains and for foreplay too. If you want to receive internal stimulation and feel comfortable moving on, you can use some wand vibrators internally.
If you are an older lady living with dexterity issues, we recommend a vibrating love egg. These toys are a fantastic choice as your lover can assist you with your pleasures by operating the remote control. Remote-control toys are perfect for bringing fun and excitement to couples’ play, making them a real win-win option.
If you have any mobility issues when you’re older, then sex aids and furniture can be a huge help in overcoming barriers that stop you from being intimate with a partner. There is a wide range of sex furniture on the market that helps people to get into certain positions comfortably and with ease, and to maintain these positions for longer. Being disabled doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy a happy and fulfilling sex life. We’ve compiled a list of some of the best sex aids to ensure people living with mobility issues can still enjoy sex.
Top 5 Sex Aids
1, Bangin Bench with thrusting and vibrating dildo £239.99
The Bangin bench is a great piece of sex furniture for people who may need a bit of extra support. It has a sturdy steel frame that’s built to last and extra-stable handles to grip hold of to keep you in your desired position. This sex bench will allow users to maintain a variety of angles and poses. Also included is a hands-free thrusting and vibrating dildo offering 6 thrusting modes and 8 vibrating modes. A remote control is also included so you can easily find the vibration setting that’s best for you. It has a maximum weight limit of 250 1bs.
2, Liberator Jaz Sex Cushion £87.99
This sex cushion makes achieving awkward sexual positions more achievable. If getting down on the floor or funny angles causes discomfort, this cushion can be a real help and make sex more comfortable. This allows the user to relax and enjoy their intimate encounter, as they should. This angled sex cushion is wedge-shaped and made from supportive yet comfortable foam. It provides six inches of lift for deeper penetration and easier access. The microsuede cover is removable and washable, and under the cover is a water-resistant liner to protect the high-density foam. If play gets a little messy, you can clean up easily afterwards.
3, Fetish Fantasy Inflatable Bondage Chair £79.99
This inflatable sex seat is ideal for people who can’t stand for too long during play and require to be comfortably seated. As this furniture is inflatable, you can deflate it when not needed, or if you are short of space. It’s designed with comfort and pleasure in mind. It includes 6 padded velcro restraints so you can add bondage to your play. It’s made from strong, durable materials and holds a maximum weight of 3001 lbs.
4, Master Series The Dicktator Extreme Sex Machine £981.99
The Dictator sex machine takes all the hard work out of sex, so all you have to do is relax and enjoy. You can adjust the angle of this machine up to 300 degrees to fit perfectly in unlimited positions. The machine also moves up and down the length of the stand for your ideal height, making it extremely versatile. You can easily control the vibration to suit your experience level and find what you’re comfortable with. The Dicktator has a durable steel frame and will stand up to vigorous use through many play sessions. Enjoy machine-powered sex without the effort or stamina with this high-quality sex machine.
Fetish Fantasy Door Swing £40.99
This sex swing is capable of holding a maximum weight of 300 1bs so it’s suitable for most people. This swing threads over the door, and the secure fittings hold it in place while the door is closed. All you need to do is adjust the harness to suit your desired positions and enjoy with your lover. Two comfortable stirrups are included to support your feet, ankles, knees, or legs. The two handles will help you gain leverage and support your weight even in the most difficult-to-hold positions. This sex swing is the ideal aid to keep you comfortable and secure in those awkward positions you desire to achieve.
So can older women use sex toys? With careful considerations, knowing your own capabilities and whether you have any health conditions or disabilities, the answer is absolutely yes. Using sex toys can enhance pleasure, increase arousal and promote positive health outcomes. Sexual pleasure is a great thing, whether you’re older or not, but as you get older, you may face challenges, so it’s always a great idea to be in tune with your body.
