How to have great sex in long term relationships

We all know sex can be great, and it usually is when you’re in a relationship, but how do we have great sex in long-term relationships? Let’s look into this a bit closer.

The differences in our sex drives can impact whether you both have great sex. If one partner has a high sex drive and wants it all the time while the other partner has a low sex drive, this can cause problems. You would both need to discuss this and try to work around it.

When you meet someone new, young or older, the excitement of not knowing how they act and perform in the bedroom can significantly turn on.

The lust and the passion can be immense, as I know from my own experiences with some of the younger and older women I have met. It can be exhilarating, and you can’t wait to meet them.

A day can seem like forever waiting to see them again. I remember parking my motorbike up on the side of the road where this one woman lived, and as soon as I got into her home, she was pleased and excited to see me. The curtains would be closed, and this was in the daytime. She would say I’ve been waiting all day for you to arrive. She would start kissing me, grabbing me and saying, ” Wait here while I put something sexy on. I’ll shout when I’m ready. Wow, I thought, isn’t life brilliant? I would get all horny and wait for her to call me; she would shout I’m ready. I would go upstairs to her bedroom, and she would be lying on the bed in her sexy underwear and say come on, what are you waiting for?

I would soon join in and start to caress and kiss her, she would get all wet, and I would fuck her several times; those days were great. Now I’m older and settled down with a woman. We had great sex for years, but after a long time living together, you get used to each other’s ways and start to take sex for granted. Don’t get me wrong, it’s still good sex, and we both enjoyed it, but after the years, it started not to be as great as before.

Even though we both fancied each other, I think it is inevitable that most couples will experience this. They may need a holiday or a different location or something to get that flame going again with that hot lust of passion we used to have. We often talked to each other and said it was good sex, but was it great when we first met each other? We carried on our discussion and tried to think of what we could do to get that great sex back again.

Shall we have a threesome, we thought? We tried this a few times, and it was great fun, but we both decided to try something different. We started watching porn, which was great for a few years. We got to know each other even more by watching porn, as it showed what our likes and dislikes were, and we took it from there. We would get very excited watching porn DVDs, and then one day, we both decided to try some sex toys. We agreed it would be fun and not be too expensive as money was tight then. She discovered that you could get sex toys for under a fiver, so we started to check out the various sex toys on offer for couples.

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Anyway, we looked around and found an adult online sex toy website and bought our first sex toy it was a bullet vibrator. It was not expensive, relatively cheap actually, and my partner said you could watch me masturbating with it. So she played with her clit and started to moan, she was enjoying herself, but I was too. I was as hard as I’d ever been; watching her turned me on, and I wanted to fuck her straight away, but she said you could wait until I was finished. I’m sure she loves to tease me, but I loved it; who would have thought a cheap sex toy and a bit of imagination could do so much for our sex lives?

She loves to watch me with a pocket pussy; they are cheap but feel amazing. I add some water-based lube, and that pocket vagina is super wet. She watches me fuck it and masturbate with it, and then when she’s seen enough, she will say, put that down and fuck me with that hard cock.

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