Strap-On Pleasures Dilemma: Am I Gay

Strap-On Pleasures Dilemma: Am I Gay?

I have a girlfriend, and I love her. I’m straight, that’s for sure, but… what if I liked when she used a strap-on dildo? Am I gay?

In the world of LGBT, the use of strap-on dildos and their variants are pretty well understood. These devices help to facilitate times of shared intimacy with each other. Same-sex intercourse disallows optimal pleasure like how heterosexual intercourse comes with; such sex toys have been invented to give gay couples a chance to experience the same satisfaction.

That being said, you might wonder if you are somewhat gay because you enjoy and find pleasure when you become a bend over boyfriend.

Both of you swapped places.

Just a tinge of uncertainty runs through your mind; you were sent thinking if this means you’re gay. Well, you aren’t alone, honestly. Many people out there have these exact questions when they find themselves enjoying a woman using a strap-on on them.

In this article, you’ll find out whether or not your girlfriend is dating a straight or gay dude – to a certain extent.

History of Strap-On Use

You will be surprised by the fact that crazy things were going on in bedrooms or what was then known as “chambers”, even in the early years of humanity.

Humans are driven by avoiding pain and feeling pleasure; this is what kept us alive in the first place. Dating back to Upper Paleolithic times, that means when people were still drawing and carving on stones, artefacts that seem to look like what we know now as strap-on dildos were excavated!

Dr Carol Queen talks about the Bend Over Boyfriend in 1998 and references back to olden days where strap-on sex was displayed in artefacts, mythology, writings, and yes… the good old’ HD visual paintings.

So if you think that this form of sexual activity only started in the 21st century, you haven’t got a clue the extent of our ancestors’ kinky acts.

Who uses Strap-Ons?

Although the strap-on is commonly used for same-sex intercourses, it’s not limited to these relationship types only.

Do not be alarmed that you enjoy getting bent over and having a woman do what supposedly a man would do.

The fact that gay men usually like anal doesn’t make you gay because you share the same thing. It’s the same as how gay men have a liking for touching penises, and you do too but through masturbation. That doesn’t deem you as gay.

So strap-ons are for both same-sex and heterosexual couples. It’s just that gay and lesbian couples are the ones who make up the majority of those who use it.

Purpose of Strap-Ons

The reason why strap-ons even exist is relatively simple – to pleasure in a whole new and different dimension.

Gay people take an interest in people of the same gender, but their physical bodies are still created for getting the pleasure that only a person of the opposite sex could induce. A female has erogenous spots where a male’s penis could stimulate sexual arousal and orgasm.

Heterosexuals get to turn things up a notch and explore a new way of having sex with the help of strap-ons. The fact that this is something exotic and extremely erotic turns up the heat!

This could also be helpful for those with erectile dysfunction.

Types of Strap-Ons

Like any other sex toy or tool, the strap-on comes in a variety too. Each with a different purpose and made for people with varying preferences.

Did you know that strap-on is not just limited to dildos but clitoris vibrators as well?

What Other Men Think About It

This might be the part where you let out a massive sigh of relief. Other men (who are straight as they can be) also enjoy being penetrated.

It may be because from an anatomical, biological standpoint, the male’s “g-spot” is found in the middle of the scrotum and the anus. When a certain amount of pressure is exerted there, it naturally stimulates this cauldron of good feelings to start bubbling.

Thus, it’s wonderful if you like being humped – even if you’re a straight dude.

This is what seven anonymous straight guys think about pegging.

Guy #1:
It feeds my curiosity about prostate stimulation. Pegging added this whole new dimension to my sex life.

Guy #2:
Everyone has their fetish. Pegging is just one of them on the list. If you’re not open to discussing this with your partner, this probably isn’t the best way to enjoy sex for you.

Guy #3:
My girlfriend suggested this, I was shocked at the idea at first, but after trying it, I found out I enjoyed it very much.

Guy #4:
Sadly, I suffer from erectile dysfunction. So pegging or using a strap-on helps to give an orgasm even without penis stimulation.

Guy #5:
Once I realised how good it felt to have your anus stimulated through rim jobs, it snowballed. My girlfriend and I both started using butt plugs on each other; then we tried vibrators, then dildos. One day we bought a strap-on and never looked back.

Guy #6:
Pegging and using a strap-on requires trust; this also helps build trust and intimacy between my girlfriend and me. Having your girlfriend not judge you for being the one under and bent over brings the relationship to a whole new level.

Guy #7:
Simple as it is, it feels darn good. If your girlfriend is open to it, you should give it a go!

Ain’t that a good list of straight males, like yourself, who also finds having a woman use a strap-on on them an enjoyable experience. They’re even advocating it!

Conclusion

In conclusion, you shouldn’t be so quick to judge yourself; just because you have the same liking as a gay person, it doesn’t mean that you’re gay too.

Your gender isn’t dependent on how you like your sex to be. So not to worry, pal. You’re perfectly normal.

So are you a straight male who loves your woman to peg you? Or does your partner want to give pegging a try, and you don’t know whether to let her? Share your experiences and thoughts with us; we’d love to hear from you.

If you found this article to be an exciting read, look at some of our other articles, including What Is Pegging? And The Best Anal Sex Toys To Try.

Written by: Jamie Cheng

B2C Health Copywriter
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