Trying Anal Sex For The First Time

You might not be sure of what to do or how to approach your partner with it. You’ve been wanting to try it out for some time now but don’t want to end up doing something wrong or, even worse, hurting your partner in the process. So, where do you start? How do you get it going? How do you make sure you make your first time memorable so you’ll want to do it again? Here are a few tips for trying anal sex for the first time.

1.    Talk to your partner about what you two are about to do. You both must be comfortable with what is about to go on, so you two don’t regret the act later. Keep an open dialogue going so at any time during the process, you or your partner can slow down if needed.

2.    Relax! You don’t want to tense up during anal sex to the point that it begins to hurt. Anal sex may seem a bit uncomfortable the first time around, but it shouldn’t be excruciating. When you’re relaxed, the process will be much smoother. Using lube or even getting sexually aroused will help the first time around.

3.    Don’t rush! Don’t force anything too big into small spaces. Start small, then work your way up. Maybe you could start off licking, then insert a couple of fingers. Once you’ve worked your partner up, then you can slowly slide the main course in.

4.    Keep yourself safe! You or your partner mustn’t use the same finger or penis used in the butthole and then go in the vagina. Of course, you’ll clean up afterwards, but you don’t want any unnecessary infections popping up days later.

5.    If you or your partner find that you don’t like it, stop doing it. Often people think that if they keep doing something, they’ll eventually start liking it. Don’t go by this philosophy when it comes to trying anal sex for the first time. You might find that it’s simply not your thing, and you rather focus on perfecting your other sexual skills

Anal sex can be fun if approached with a positive attitude and an open-minded partner. If you start liking it, you could make it part of your regular sex routine and even come up with your own guide for trying anal sex for the first time.