What Is Fisting And How Do You Do It?

What Is Fisting

So What Is Fisting And How Do You Do It? That’s a question that you might not know the answer to so we’re here to answer it.

Fisting is a sexual act which involves putting a hand up a vagina or rectum for sexual pleasure.

The fingers should be kept straight or clenched into a fist shape when inserted, hence the name.

If you have heard of fisting before we can’t blame you for feeling horrified at the thought of it. If you’ve ever watched a fisting scene in an adult movie and winced as it’s so aggressive it can put people off.  It doesn’t have to be this way; you can do it or receive it however you like.

You can perform this act on yourself, so you don’t need a partner to enjoy this kind of activity.

Or you can enjoy it as a couple and try it out on one another; the choice is yours.

It’s always “handy” if you have a partner who can do all the hard work while you lie back and enjoy it, we tried to make a joke there.

The main thing that’s important if you want to try out fisting for the first time is that you both discuss it. It’s not going to be fun if one of you isn’t enjoying it and you’re just doing it to please your partner. Both partner’s should enjoy the fisting experience.

All couples can enjoy fisting including Lesbian, gay and heterosexual couples.

Prepare For Fisting

So first things first, you’ve both agreed you want to go ahead and enjoy some handballing fun. The giver needs to prepare themselves first by making sure they are clean. Wash your hand and arm first ( you don’t know how far you’re going to go with this) When inserting things into the body you don’t want to cause infection by not being clean. Trim your nails short, so they are clean and don’t scratch your partner. Also, remember to remove any items of jewellery, you don’t want it scratching your lover internally or even worse coming off and getting stuck up there.

 

Don’t Forget the Lube

 

What Is Fisting

Next up, is the lube, Lube is your best friend when it comes to fisting. You should never indulge in fist play without some lubricant being applied to the area and fist first. The lube will make insertion more natural and more comfortable. If you are planning on some anal fisting, you will need lube as the anus doesn’t self lubricate like the vagina. We at adultshopit have a product called The You2Toys Fisting Gel 200ml. It’s a water-based formula which allows for the stretching of the vagina or anus. It’s also long-lasting and slightly numbs the area. Although it has a numbing effect, you should still take care when fisting as you don’t want to be harmed or cause harm. Slowly and carefully is the way to proceed with this act.

Have a Safe Word

We suggest you decide on a safe word, so if your lover gets a bit carried away, or you think it’s going a bit too far you can say a safe word to stop going any further. Obviously if your fist-fucking yourself you can stop yourself when you’ve had enough so there will be no need for a safe word. But as a couple, we think this is extremely important.

Warm Yourself Up

So you’re all relaxed, lubed up and ready for some pleasures. As you warm up for exercise, you need to warm up before fisting. Start with something smaller before you jump straight in with your hand. Try a dildo in the vagina or a butt plug in the anus to get your body ready for what’s about to come. We sell a variety of sex toys for you to start with and prepare yourself. You need to be relaxed before you indulge in your fisting fun. Once you’ve warmed up and are ready, you can start to insert the fist. We sell a fisting dildo at adultshopit called the Basix Fist Of Fury if you’d prefer to use a sex toy. First, the choice is yours. The Fist Of Fury is available in a choice of colours including Black Of Flesh for a realistic look. It has realistic-looking fingers and pronounced knuckles. It’s sure to provide some deeply satisfying stimulation. If you’re feeling brave enough, we also stock a double fisting dildo, once you’ve advanced and if you feel ready.

Communication is key

Communication is vital when engaging in fisting. You should talk to each other throughout and express any feelings you are having either of pleasure or if you are experiencing any pain. Fisting can be painful so we always say to go slow  Also, remember the safe word so you can both stop when you have had enough.

Going In

Never insert a closed fist into the vagina or anus it would be very painful. Start one finger at a time until the whole hand is inserted. The hand should be tapered when fully inserted, and the fingers should be fully extended. Remember to go slow; the receiver will enjoy slow movements way more than if it’ too fast and hard causing them pain.

Pulling Out

So you’ve experienced your first fisting session and you’re ready to pull out, (if you’re the giver). You must remember to bring out the hand, the way it went in. You should never attempt to remove your hand with your fist still clenched up. Unclench the fist, keep your fingers together and gradually take out your hand. Remember to go slow to avoid any pain or injury to the person being fisted; you wouldn’t want that to happen.

So that’s it, we’ve talked about the sexual practice of fisting and hopefully taught you a thing or two. If it’s something that tickles your fancy the next thing to do is discuss it with your partner or have a go yourself. If it’s done carefully and done right Fisting can bring a whole new element of fun and excitement to your relationship.

 

 

One thought on “What Is Fisting And How Do You Do It?

  1. Jameshoale says:

    Really educational look forth to coming back again.

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